In this master's thesis, we explored the experiences and approaches to conflict among adult children of alcoholics. The theoretical part defines harmful alcohol use and alcoholism within the family context. We also examined the effects of growing up in a family with alcohol-related issues and the specific characteristics of adult children of alcoholics. Furthermore, we described how children and adult children of alcoholics confront conflicts. In the empirical part, we used the phenomenological method to present the experiences of participants who grew up with an alcoholic parent, asking them about their perceptions of conflicts and the strategies they use in dealing with them.
Data were collected through semi-structured interviews with five participants aged 22 to 28, including one male and four females. Results showed that all participants developed a negative attitude toward conflicts, associating them with arguing and aggression, most frequently displayed during the parent's intoxicated state. They respond to conflicts in various ways—some engage in arguments, while others prefer to withdraw or resort to humor and passive-aggressive behavior. All participants suppress their emotions and struggle with expressing their needs, setting boundaries, and trusting in relationships. They also express a desire for a safe environment where they can freely express their needs and develop healthier ways of handling conflicts.
The findings of this thesis can contribute to a more effective approach in supporting adult children of alcoholics who face conflicts in relationships, as they provide a deeper understanding of this phenomenon. Additionally, the results lay the foundation for further research in this area.
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