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Življenje po razhodu zaradi nezvestobe partnerja ali partnerice : magistrsko delo
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Magistrsko delo obravnava področje vsakdanjega in ljubezenskega življenja po razhodu zaradi nezvestobe partnerja/-ice. Posebno mesto znotraj obravnavane tematike zastopa individualno okrevanje oseb po odkritju nezvestobe partnerja/-ice, oziroma po prekinitvi partnerske zveze – področje, ki je bilo do sedaj, za razliko od partnerskega okrevanja, spregledano in neraziskano. V teoretičnem delu predstavim spremembe, ki jih je v pozni moderni doživela zasebnost, intimnost in ljubezen. Nadaljnje se dotaknem opredelitve partnerske nezvestobe, njenih tipov ter zgodovine nezvestobe v partnerskih odnosih. Raziščem tudi prepletenost dejavnikov za partnersko nezvestobo ter podrobno opišem stopnje, ki sledijo po odkritju nezvestobe partnerja/-ice (t. i. stopnja odkritja, stopnja odločitve in stopnja okrevanja). V empiričnem delu prek intervjujev s šestimi osebami ugotavljam, kako je potekal proces individualnega okrevanja po razhodu zaradi nezvestobe partnerja/-ice in kaj je osebam v procesu okrevanja pomagalo. Prav tako raziščem, kako je nezvestoba partnerja/-ice, zaradi katere je prišlo do razhoda, zaznamovala njihovo nadaljnje vsakdanje in ljubezensko življenje, ter kako so se s tovrstnimi vplivi v novih partnerskih zvezah soočale. Ugotovitve kažejo, da se osebe po razhodu zaradi nezvestobe partnerja/-ice srečujejo s finančnimi izzivi, okrnjeno samopodobo ter spremembami na področju bivanja, preživljanja in vzgoje skupnih otrok. Prav tako se pokaže, da je okrevanje, ki nastopi po odkritju nezvestobe oziroma razhodu izrazito individualen ter intenziven čustven proces, ki terja svoj čas. Osebe pogosto prehajajo skozi stopnje, ki nastopijo po izgubi v procesu žalovanja. Ob tem pa je med drugim pogosto prisoten še občutek sramu, izdanosti in ponižanosti. V procesu okrevanja se kot pomemben podporni dejavnik pokaže predvsem socialna mreža, ki pa lahko v določenih vidikih hkrati tudi oteži sam proces okrevanja. Prav tako se izkaže, da je nezvesti partner hkrati tisti, ki lahko pomembno pripomore k okrevanju prevaranih oseb preko pogovora in odgovarjanja na njihova vprašanja, ki jih pusti odkritje nezvestobe. Okrevanje je ob tem ključnega pomena ter predpogoj za nadaljnja navezovanja in nova partnerstva po tovrstnem razhodu. Rezultati nadaljnje kažejo, da je bilo pri večini sodelujočih v raziskavi pri spoznavanju in vstopanju v novo partnersko razmerje prisotno večje nezaupanje ter strah pred ponovitvijo izkušnje nezvestobe, zaradi česar so bili pri vstopu v novo zvezo previdnejši kot sicer. V novem partnerskem odnosu pri sebi zaznavajo večji in pogostejši občutek ljubosumja ter posledično močnejšo potrebo zaščiti partnerski odnos. Kot pomemben način spopadanja z vplivi pretekle izkušnje nezvestobe v novem partnerskem razmerju se pokaže predvsem iskrena partnerska komunikacija. Izkušnja razhoda zaradi nezvestobe partnerja je večino udeležencev spodbudila k delu na sebi ter k razmisleku o željah in potrebah na področju nadaljnjega partnerstva, kar je pri mnogih rezultiralo v bolj zadovoljujočem in kompatibilnem partnerskem odnosu, v katerega so vstopili po tej izkušnji.

Jezik:Slovenski jezik
Ključne besede:partnerska zveza, nezvestoba, razveza, okrevanje, nova partnerska zveza, prešuštvo
Vrsta gradiva:Magistrsko delo/naloga
Tipologija:2.09 - Magistrsko delo
Organizacija:PEF - Pedagoška fakulteta
Kraj izida:Ljubljana
Založnik:Ž. Kous
Leto izida:2024
Št. strani:63 str.
PID:20.500.12556/RUL-156404 Povezava se odpre v novem oknu
UDK:316(043.2)
COBISS.SI-ID:196893699 Povezava se odpre v novem oknu
Datum objave v RUL:24.05.2024
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Sekundarni jezik

Jezik:Angleški jezik
Naslov:Life after a break-up due to a partner's infidelity
Izvleček:
This master's thesis deals with the field of everyday and love life after a breakup due to the infidelity of a partner. A notable aspect within the discussed topic pertains to the personal recovery of individuals following the revelation of a partner's infidelity or the dissolution of a relationship - a domain that, unlike partner recovery, has been disregarded and underexplored. In the theoretical section, I outline the transformations that privacy, intimacy, and love undergo in late modernity. I also delve into the definition of partner infidelity, its various types, and the historical context of infidelity within partner relationships. I also explore the interplay of factors contributing to partner infidelity and provide a detailed description of the stages that ensue following its discovery, including the discovery phase, decision-making phase, and recovery phase. In the empirical section, I conduct interviews with six individuals to ascertain the process of individual recovery following a breakup due to a partner's infidelity, as well as identifying the factors that aided them in their recovery journey. I also explore how the infidelity of the partner that led to the breakup marked their further everyday and love life, and how they faced such influences in new partnerships. The findings indicate that following the separation triggered by their partner's infidelity, individuals encounter financial difficulties, diminished self-esteem, and alterations in their living arrangements, sustenance, and the upbringing of shared children. It also becomes evident that recovery, following the discovery of infidelity or separation, is a deeply personal and intense emotional journey that requires time. People frequently experience stages in the grieving process following a loss. Simultaneously, individuals often experience emotions such as shame, betrayal, and humiliation, among other factors. During the recovery process, the social network serves as a crucial source of support, yet it can also introduce complications in certain aspects of the recovery journey. However, it's also revealed that the unfaithful partner, can play a significant role in the recovery of betrayed individuals by engaging in open communication and addressing their questions stemming from the discovery of infidelity. Recovery stands as a crucial prerequisite for establishing new connections and forming new partnerships after experiencing such a breakup. The findings also indicate that a majority of the participants in the study developed heightened distrust and fear regarding the possibility of experiencing infidelity when entering into new partner relationships. This caution led them to approach new relationships with more vigilance than usual. In new partner relationships, they experience increased and more frequent feelings of jealousy, leading to a heightened need to protect the relationship. Open and honest communication between partners is a crucial method for addressing the effects of past experiences of infidelity in a new relationship. The experience has prompted many individuals to focus on self-improvement and reflect on their desires and needs in future partnerships, leading to more fulfilling and compatible relationships for many following such experiences.

Ključne besede:partnership, infidelity, divorce, recovery, new partnership

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