Using interpretative phenomenological analysis, this study examines the lived experiences of individuals who have encountered limerence, focusing on their perceptions of the onset, progression, and effects of limerence across various aspects of their lives, with particular emphasis on the connection between limerence and creativity. The study made efforts to differentiate limerence from romantic infatuation. Participants described limerence as a phenomenon marked by intense involuntary emotions, a strong preoccupation with the limerent object, and various psychological and behavioral symptoms. The limerent object represented an important aspect of participants’ experiences and was often perceived through an idealized or distorted lens, with participants attributing considerable significance to the LO’s responses, attention, and potential signs of reciprocation. Limerence had a significant impact on participants’ daily lives, emotional states, thoughts, interpersonal relationships, and creative process, functioning as a way of expressing and processing the profound feelings they encountered. The positive impact of limerence was evident in the realm of creativity and in feelings of unique experience and euphoria, however, it also induced feelings of inferiority, depression, and despair in the participants. The length of limerence varied among individuals, as did their level of awareness regarding the experience; some participants recognized they were in a state of limerence during the event, whereas others became aware of it only after it had concluded. For some participants, limerence occurred more than once, although these later instances were not necessarily the same as the initial occurrence, varying in intensity, personal experience, and ways of responding to it. The results provide greater insight into the personal experience of limerence and its effects on an individual’s emotional, social, and creative spheres. They also emphasize the need for further research into limerence, as it represents a complex phenomenon that remains relatively understudied in comparison with other forms of romantic love.
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