Vse ljubezni so enako (s)lepe : razkritje istospolne usmerjenosti v družini

Kuhar, Roman (author)

Prispevek se naslanja na primerjalno analizo podatkov iz dveh valov raziskovanja vsakdanjega življenja gejev in lezbijk v Sloveniji (2003 in 2014) in se osredotoča na vprašanje razkritja istospolne usmerjenosti v kontekstu družine. Tu ljubezen igra dvojno vlogo: kot starševska ljubezen pomembno opredeljuje odzive na razkritje istospolne usmerjenosti otroka in poznejše (ne)sprejemanje te identitete, kot homoerotična partnerska ljubezen pa pomembno utrjuje posameznikovo homoseksualno identiteto: raziskave v Sloveniji kažejo, da pomemben delež gejev in lezbijk razkrije svojo spolno usmerjenost staršem šele, ko so v istospolni partnerski zvezi.

• Language: Slovenian
• Keywords: družina, spolna usmerjenost, homoseksualnost, istospolna usmerjenost
• Typology: 1.08 - Published Scientific Conference Contribution
• Organization: FF - Faculty of Arts
• Year: 2017
• Number of pages: Str. 87-95
• PID: 20.500.12556/RUL-124161
• UDC: 316.6:316.367.7
• DOI: 10.4312/SSJLK.53.87-95
• COBISS.SI-ID: 64580194
• Publication date in RUL: 07.01.2021

Record is a part of a monograph

• Title: Ljubezen v slovenskem jeziku, literaturi in kulturi
• Editors: Alojzija Zupan Sosič
• Place of publishing: Ljubljana
• Publisher: Znanstvena založba Filozofske fakultete
• Year: 2017
• ISBN: 978-961-237-934-6
• COBISS.SI-ID: 290542336
• Collection title: Zbirka Seminar slovenskega jezika, literature in kulture
• Collection numbering: 53
• Collection ISSN: 2386-0561

Secondary language

• Language: English

Abstract

The contribution draws upon a comparative analysis of two waves of research into the everyday life of gays and lesbians in Slovenia (2003 and 2014), focusing on the question of the disclosure of same-sex orientation in the context of the family. Here, love plays a dual role: as parental love, it importantly defines the reaction to the child's "coming out" and the later (non-)acceptance of this identity; as homo-erotic love for one's partner, it importantly confirms the individual's sexual identity. Research in Slovenia shows that a significant proportion of gays and lesbians reveal their sexual orientation to their parents only when they are in a same-sex partnership.

• Keywords: family, sex orientation, homosexuality, same-sex orientation