Navezovanje matere in otroka med dojenjem : diplomsko delo

Radovič, Katarina (author), Batistič-Zorec, Marcela (mentor), Prosen, Simona (co-mentor)

Otrok iz navezanosti, ki se zgradi med njim in materjo, črpa zaupanje vase in v svet okoli sebe. Obstajajo različni dejavniki, ki vplivajo na kakovost čustvene navezanosti med materjo in otrokom. Eden od dejavnikov, ki poleg materine občutljivosti, njenih lastnosti, odnosov v družini in otrokove odsotnosti od doma, vpliva na kakovost otrokove navezanosti, je tudi dojenje. Tako sem v empiričnem delu prek intervjujev s tremi materami ugotavljala, kakšen odnos so imele do dojenja pred in po rojstvu otroka, kako so dojenje doživljale, kakšno vlogo so imele pri oblikovanju odnosa do dojenja druge osebe, kako so otroka odvadile od dojenja in kako je to vplivalo na odnos mati  otrok. Ugotavljam, da vse matere odobravajo dojenje. Menijo, da dojenje vpliva na kakovost čustvene vezi med materjo in otrokom. Dojenje prav tako doživljajo kot neko posebno vez, bližino, ki nastane samo med njima. Matere so pred in po porodu imele isto mnenje o dojenju, nanj pa se niso prav posebej pripravljale, ker se jim je zdelo dojenje nekaj samoumevnega in najbolj naravnega. Matere so se med dojenjem srečevale z različnimi težavami, na katere niso bile pripravljene. Te težave so povzročile, da dojenje pri eni materi sploh ni steklo. Veliko jim je pomenilo, da so pri dojenju dobile podporo svojih bližnjih, predvsem moža. Ena od mater je bila takšne podpore deležna v veliki meri, ostali dve malo manj. Vse tri matere so omenile, da s strani zdravstvenega osebja niso dobile skoraj nobene podpore, spodbude in nasvetov pri dojenju; želijo, da bi se to v prihodnosti spremenilo. Odstavljanje otroka od prsi je povzročilo manjše spremembe v odnosu med materjo in otrokom. Otroka, ki sta bila dojena, sta takrat bolj potrebovala bližino matere, več objemanja, božanja, nošenja in pogovarjanja pred spanjem.

• Language: Slovenian
• Keywords: dojenje, čustvena navezanost
• Work type: Bachelor thesis/paper
• Typology: 2.11 - Undergraduate Thesis
• Organization: PEF - Faculty of Education
• Publisher: [K. Radovič]
• Year: 2016
• Number of pages: 57 str.
• PID: 20.500.12556/RUL-88497
• UDC: 159.922.7(043.2)
• COBISS.SI-ID: 11283017
• Publication date in RUL: 31.08.2017

Secondary language

• Language: English
• Title: Growing attachment between mother and child through breastfeeding

Abstract

A child builds their self-esteem and trust in the world around them based on the attachment they develop to their mother. There are different factors which affect the quality of this attachment. One of the factors, besides the mother's sensitivity, traits, family relations and the child's absence from home, which affects the quality of the child's attachment to the mother is breastfeeding. In the empirical part of the thesis, we have examined through interviews with three mothers the attitude of mothers to breastfeeding before and after giving birth, their experience of breastfeeding and their role in other persons' perception of breastfeeding, the process of weaning the baby from the breast and the effects of this on the mother-child relation. We have found that all mothers approve of breastfeeding. They believe that breastfeeding influences the quality of the emotional bond between the mother and child. They also see breastfeeding as a special bond, an intimacy created just between them and the baby. The mothers did not change their opinion on breastfeeding after giving birth and had not prepared themselves for it, as they had perceived it as something that comes naturally. The mothers were faced with various problems they were not ready for during breastfeeding. The unexpected problems were the reason that one of the mothers was unable to breastfeed at all. In this situation, the mothers very much appreciated the support they received from the people close to them, especially their husbands. One of the mothers received a lot of support from her husband, while the other two were supported by their husbands to a lesser extent. All three said they had received virtually no support, encouragement or advice from the medical staff, which they would like to change in the future. Weaning their baby from their breast caused minor changes to their relation with the child. The two children who were breastfed needed their mothers a lot more in this period and wanted more hugging, caressing, carrying and talking before sleep.

• Keywords: mother-child relation, confidence, mother, child, odnos med materjo in otrokom, zaupanje, mati, otrok