Detabuizacija motiva spolnosti v problemskih slikanicah za otroke : magistrsko delo

Mediževec, Tjaša (author), Blažič, Milena (mentor)

Problematika spolnosti v družbi je v 21. stoletju še vedno tabu tema. Čeprav se malo izboljšuje, še vedno veliko ljudi pri temah v povezavi s spolnostjo doživlja sram in neprijeten občutek. Menim, da je razbijanje tabujev pomembno, zato sem se že v diplomskem delu posvetila problematiki spolnosti. V diplomskem delu sem bolj obravnavala prikrito spolnost v izbranih slikanicah, medtem ko sem se v magistrskem delu bolj posvetila spolnim zlorabam v Sloveniji. Preučila sem razno literaturo, kjer lahko zaznamo spolno zlorabo, kot je incest med očetom in hčerko. Začela sem z Biblijo in kronološko nadaljevala z zgodbami in slikanicami do leta 2020, za katere trdim, da so sporne za otroke. Dotaknila sem kratke zgodbe iz otroške revije Kekec z naslovom Lepi striček, ki govori o tem, kako je deklica žrtev zlorabe maminega prijatelja. Tu sem govorila tudi o tem, naj starši že od začetka učijo otroke, da jim povedo ''skrivnosti''. Omenila sem zgodbo starejše gospe iz projekta Vida, ki govori o tem, kako jo je ''atek'' naredil za ženo. Društvo Humanitarček s projektom Vida opozarja slovensko javnost na nujno potrebne sistemske spremembe. V empiričnem delu sem naredila intervju z Mirjam Kline, kjer sva govorili o Pravilniku o obravnavi nasilja v družini za vzgojno-izobraževalne zavode, predstavila sem njeno delo in primere, ki so se ji najbolj vtisnili v spomin. Naredila sem tudi anketni vprašalnik in ga razdelila vrtcem po Sloveniji. Njihove odgovore sem analizirala in predstavila izsledke raziskave. Menim, da mi je ta tema blizu zaradi tega, ker sem velikokrat poslušala, da se o spolnosti ne govori, da je to nekaj, kar mora ostati skrito in da moram biti jaz kot ženska glede tega tiho, ker to ni moja stvar. Najbolj pa me je prizadelo, ko sem brala različne knjige, ki so govorile o tem, kako so bili otroci žrtve spolnih zlorab in niso bili slišani, še več, obtoževali so jih, da so si takšnih dejanj sami krivi. A kako bodo otroci ločevali med dovoljenimi in nedovoljenimi dotiki in se spoznavali s spolnostjo, če jim odrasli to prikrivamo? Zaradi takih dejanj prihaja do spolne zlorabe, ker otroci ne vedo, kaj se jim dogaja, odrasli pa jim grozijo, da o tem ne smejo govoriti. Najhuje pa je to, da statistika pravi, da je v Sloveniji zlorabljenih okoli 100.000 otrok.

• Language: Slovenian
• Keywords: incesti, otroci, slikanice, spolna zloraba, spolnost, predšolska vzgoja, spolne zlorabe otrok, tabuji
• Work type: Master's thesis/paper
• Typology: 2.09 - Master's Thesis
• Organization: PEF - Faculty of Education
• Place of publishing: Ljubljana
• Publisher: T. Mediževec
• Year: 2024
• Number of pages: 31 str.
• PID: 20.500.12556/RUL-154855
• UDC: 343.541-053.2(043.2)
• COBISS.SI-ID: 188140547
• Publication date in RUL: 06.03.2024

Secondary language

• Language: English
• Title: De-tabooing the sexual motif in children's problem picture books

Abstract

The issue of sexuality in society is still a taboo topic in the 21st century. Despite improving a little, many people still experience shame and discomfort when it comes to sexuality. I think that breaking taboos is important, so I already focused on the issue of sexuality in my dissertation. In my dissertation, I dealt more with concealed sexuality in selected picture books, while in my master's thesis I will focus more on sexual abuse in Slovenia. I will examine various literature where we can detect sexual abuse, such as incest between father and daughter. I will start with the Bible and continue chronologically with stories and picture books until 2020 that I claim are controversial for children. I will touch on a short story from the children's magazine Kekec entitled Lepi striček, which talks about how a girl is a victim of abuse by her mother's friend. I will also talk here about parents teaching their children from the beginning to tell them “Secrets". I will mention the story of an elderly lady from the Vida project who talks about how he “atek” made her a wife. With the Vida project, the Humanitarček Association is raising the awareness of the Slovenian public about the urgently needed systemic changes. In the empirical part, I will do an interview with Mirjam Kline, where we will talk about the Rules on the treatment of domestic violence for educational institutions, I will present her work and examples that have stuck in her memory the most. I will also make a survey questionnaire and distribute it to kindergartens in Slovenia. I will analyse their answers and present the findings I have reached. I think this topic is close to me because I have heard many times that sexuality is not talked about, that it is something that needs to remain hidden and, above all, that I as a woman need to be quiet about it because it is not my thing. What struck me the most, however, was when I read various books that talked about how children were victims of sexual abuse and were not heard from, they even accused them of being to blame. However, how will children distinguish between allowed and forbidden touches and get to know sexuality if adults hide it from them. Such acts lead to sexual abuse because children do not know what is happening to them and adults threaten them not to talk about it. The worst thing is that statistics show that around 100,000 children are abused in Slovenia.

• Keywords: child, sexuality, picture book, sexual abuse, incest