Infidelity in romantic relationships is a complex phenomenon that extends beyond mere moral and ethical considerations, encompassing a broad range of psychological, emotional, and social factors. In this master's thesis, we explored the occurrence of sexual infidelity in heterosexual romantic relationships, examining the reasons that lead to infidelity. We employed a qualitative research approach, which included in-depth semi-structured interviews with individuals who had direct experience with infidelity.
The results of the study revealed that the main reasons for infidelity in romantic relationships include a lack of emotional connection, dissatisfaction within the relationship, the search for novelty and excitement, and external influences such as stress, the availability of alternatives, and social norms. Participants emphasized that infidelity rarely occurs suddenly but instead develops gradually as a result of unmet needs and dissatisfaction within the existing relationship. The study also highlighted the significant role of gender, cultural factors, and individual personality traits in the perception and experience of infidelity.
The research also identified the intergenerational impact of infidelity. Participants who had experienced infidelity in their parents' relationships were more likely to either repeat these patterns in their own adult relationships or develop a heightened fear of infidelity. The study also emphasized the influence of modern technology, which facilitates the establishment of extramarital affairs and blurs the boundaries between emotional and physical infidelity.
Despite the pain and challenges that infidelity brings, some individuals reported that they learned valuable lessons about themselves and their relationships from the experience. The study underscores the need to improve communication in relationships, enhance emotional connection, and raise awareness of the influence of social norms on the perception of fidelity.
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